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Start new discussion Reply. Im a 18 yr old male and have been going out with my gf 19 for nearly 6 months, we are both still virgins. So since this we have tried sex numerous times, but i keep on going soft just before or when i try to put it in her, its really distressing Going limp right before penetration, my girlfriend is understanding, but i guess she must be a little annoyed because we both really want sex.
I can masturbate or recieve handjobs easily staying hard until cumming, so i dont think i have a proper erection problem, maybe just nerves. But what can i do to solve this? I have thought Viagra, but is this something to see my GP about, would he proscribe me it?
It kinda dents my ego thinking i need viarga at 18, and this is all getting to me, i cant help thinking im a failure Any help would be greatly Going limp right before penetration.
Follow 2 Google 'horny goat weed'. Reue Follow followers 20 badges Send a private message to Reue. Follow 3 Viagra and yes, your doctor would give you it. Follow 4 The obsessing over it probably isn't helping.
If you expect it to happen then it is more likely it will happen.
I know its easier said than done, but it's true. Follow 5 Its a psychological problem. This is happening to you because it didn't work out the first time you tried and now its niggling at the back of your mind everytime you try again. Its nothing to do with you physically. All you can do is keep trying and try to ease the pressure off and not think about it.
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Just let things happen. It'll work out in its own time, don't worry!
The more you worry, the more it'll keep happening. Wren Follow 0 followers 0 badges Send a private message to Wren.
Follow 6 Original post by rscully Google 'horny goat weed'. Follow 8 Follow 9 Original post by Wren Haha I used to sell this! I used to work at the call centre that handles Healthy Direct catalogue calls and it was always a laugh when people phoned in for this! The call centre also handled a company called "Gash", kind of like anne summers, thank god I didn't have to answer those I would have laughed straight down the phone! Erectile dysfunction isn't funny, and I'm immature.
Original post by Anonymous Im a 18 yr old male and have been going out with my gf 19 for nearly 6 months, we are both still virgins. This sounds exactly like the problem my boyfriend has.
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We've discussed it before and we've come to the conclusion it's just his nerves. He had one instance where he failed to sustain an erection and now he worries about failing everytime we become intimate. The only way to overcome the problem, that we've noticed, is to just stop thinking completely. Let your animal side take over and once you do it right just once, your fear will start to dwindle.
It's not a failure on your part and there is nothing wrong with you, remember that. And trust me, if she loves you, she doesn't mind.
She probably hates that it hurts you and upsets you more than she is actually bothered by the "problem. Thinking is bad at such moments - ruins everything.
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Follow 12 Follow 13 Maybe you are actually gay- you jerk off about gay porn while you're trying to have sex with your girlfriend, then when you realise that you're gonna penetrate her, the penis goes flaccid as pussy is not for you. It's good that your gay- more pussy for me.
Follow 14 Follow 15 Just don't think about it too much and you'll be away!
Follow 16 It sounds like you're just worried that what happened the first time will happen again; don't. Just relax, take it slow, plenty of foreplay, make her feel comfortable.
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She might be a bit tentative and thinking about being too loud and therefore she's tight because she's worried. Anyway, it's not a problem with you, you're Going limp right before penetration worried about it not working again. Talk to her about it and she'll convince you that it won't happen again, then everything will be alright and then the good times will roll. Original post by maxfire Man up. Follow 19 followers 0 badges Send a private message to Colonel.
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Yeah, that sounds about right. in the Journal of Sexual Medicine, if your dick goes limp before or during sex, the condom isn't at fault.
You are. Has this ever happened to you? My girlfriend and I try to make ourselves sexually accessible to one another as much as possible. Basically. sex because everytime I try, my penis goes limp right as I try to insert it. If this only occurs right before sexual intercourse the reason may be.