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Is working as a stripper honestly empowering? I hated the popular belief that sex workers were oppressed and without agency, victims in need of rescuing.

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When I started stripping in the back bar of a Christchurch brothel at Enjoying female girl stripper, I was in control of my decision to get nude — or so I thought. An arts undergraduate, I had no pressing need for money, the reason usually cited for entry into the sex industry — an umbrella term that encompasses stripping, web-camming, escorting, prostitution and porn.

My parents paid my rent, my Kentucky Fried Chicken and my living expenses.

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Rather, I was seeking transgression. I also wanted the independence to make my own choices.

Stripping delivered, on all counts. On the neon-lit stage of that back bar, I let loose my inner extrovert. I got paid to dance, keep fit, wear fabulous costumes and entertain people. I felt totally empowered.

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With hindsight, what appeared to have been a conscious choice might have actually been heavily influenced. Since puberty, I had been aware of men staring at me in public.

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Then I had been date-raped. While stripping provided an opportunity to launch myself into the big wide world on my terms, it was also a chance to capitalise on my feelings of powerlessness. Putting myself up onstage and demanding payment for being watched were exertions of control.

That was about individual choice, right?

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I had the right to choose. And I did choose stripping, again and again. It brought financial independence, freedom and flexibility. No other profession I knew paid women significantly more than men.

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I could choose my hours, take time off and still have a job to come back to. With stripping, I could travel the world and I did, walking into instant employment in clubs in Melbourne and London. I worked alongside fierce women paying off mortgages and masters degrees, raising children and starting charities.

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Stripping offered endless possibility. Looking back, that possibility, coupled with the superficiality of the work and its instant reward, meant I never had to go deep and figure out what I truly valued. I did it by default. The goal of making money became an end in itself. Besides, I could hardly put stripping on my fledgling resume.

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And still I told myself it was my choice. I saw stripping as liberating. Sex workers were stigmatised as morally bankrupt, lacking in self-respect, so not worthy of respecting.

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Additionally, what I did for work on weekends was seen as the sum total of who I was. I fought hard to prove otherwise. With hindsight, the social stigma was hugely disempowering.

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Often it was worse than the work itself, where I could, by and large, control my exploitation and maintain my boundaries and self-worth. The constant judgment, often from people who had never been inside a strip club, left me excluded from normal life. I know now that male-dominated society needs this stigma to Enjoying female girl stripper the status quo. It needs to typecast women, to separate them into virgins and whores, because it needs a justification for the male gaze and for placing women at the sexual service of men.

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